Reasons Why being Single is not such a Bad thing

Okay at the age of 21 now, I notice that many of my friends are in relationships, married, have children, all that good jazz. It sounds so wonderful that some of them have fallen for their high school sweethearts and have just been fortunate enough to find someone to ride or die for them. Then there are those like me, who are just about finished with college, who are working constantly, and are trying to find that time for a little relaxation. All of that on top of wrapping up what's left of my Undergraduate degree can create a serious overload in my schedule. That overload kind of prevents me from being able to have a relationship right at this very moment. In fact, I am so busy trying to build a solid foundation for my future that I have a serious difficulty with finding someone who can truly understand recognize how passionate of a woman I am and that I am becoming. So in the mean time I have created a list that can be changed or even add to, of ways to eliminate the feeling of Loneliness and also ways to occupy your single life while also making it enjoyable.

1. Binge watch your favorite movies and order some pizza and buy a few drinks and just relax. (YOU DESERVE IT)
2. Use this time to hang out with friends and Family!
3. Catch up on your favorite television shows.
4. Go for a walk in the park
5. Spend quality time with your loved ones (FAMILY AND FRIENDS)
6. Read a BOOK ( or Kindle for you high tech folks)
7. Take a long hot shower or soothing bubble bath.
8. Work out
9. When you sleep at night STRETCH COMPLETELY OUT take over the whole bed!! (hey once your in a serious relationship you no longer have that freedom)
10. Go to Church or at least read and maybe reread your BIBLE! (learn something)
11. Go to a SPA  (PAMPERED PRINCESS)
12. Try a New Sport
13. Go on a solo trip to a destination of your choice.
14. ENJOY your life while you are young


I cannot stress number 14 enough, that is the most important. If you do not enjoy your own company, how in the world do you expect someone else to. And above all learn to truly love yourself. All of these things and more can help you do just that. By find the time to have quality ME-time you can truly embrace just how wonderful and unique you are. And maybe one day you will be able to join the group of friends .